DOWNLOAD AUDIO
LETTING GO
PRACTICE
NAVIGATION

DOWNLOAD AUDIO

LETTING GO

Don’t you hate it when you’re feeling down or grumpy and someone says “let it go, move on”. It seems like an over simplification, but honestly, sometimes you just have to try it. Staying angry, or holding on to past hurts or upsets is, as they say, just like drinking the poison yourself while expecting someone else to die.
Being able to reduce the negative thoughts, emotions and therefore energy that swirls around in your head will allow you to move deeper into yourself. You will have a clearer path to the sensations in your body and those ‘gut feelings’.
I have experienced significant cycles of clinical depression in my life, and having had this experience, I am really clear that at those times when my mind is in that fog, when I am dwelling on negative thoughts or suppressing my hurt or upset, my intuition has faded away from me and sometimes even failed all together. At those times I can’t hear my inner voice because there is so much noise in my mind. I’ve also noticed that when I’m not in those cycles, but just in a swell of negative emotions or anger, I still have the same experience of fog and failing intuition.
So, I know that saying “let it go” isn’t as easy as it seems. It takes some hard work – you really have to train your brain so that you can move from the negativity to positivity. It requires some work to turn the volume down on that noise enough so that you can actually hear your own inner voice in its authentic communication. Learning ways to be mindful in your day to day life can make a real difference. Practicing noticing when you’re in that mind set and then taking action in your head to respond and change the thought pattern will make a difference.

PRACTICE

More often than not, a negative thought comes from a bad memory that makes me upset, instantly. I dwell and my mind lingers on some past hurt or resentment, I feel it growing. The crazy thing is that sometimes the negative thoughts grow bigger than the actual experience. So, when I notice I’m doing it, I stop. I force myself to turn away from it.

 

Don’t even go anywhere near the negative thought.
Don’t rationalize it.
Don’t give it excuses.
Don’t even think about it.

Just turn away.

It means that you have to think of something else, so find things of beauty. Think of your desires, think of good feelings.
Think of how you want to feel.
Think of something that makes you feel good.
I think of painting, or the face of someone I care for, running on the beach with the dog, what I’m going to do at work that day. Anything. Anything not connected to the negative thought.

This works.

I swear to you.
It makes your lizard brain swerve.
You know when you’re driving home and you see a big traffic jam, and so you duck off down side street so that you don’t have to sit in the mess of it all. It’s the same thing. Try it. It works.
%d bloggers like this: